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Squirting is a legit sexual occurrence, and many people with vaginas enjoy it. But what is a squirting orgasm, and why do people know so little about it? Is it possible to learn to squirt? Let’s find out!

What Is a Squirting Orgasm?

Squirting refers to the expulsion of liquid from the vagina. People with vaginas can squirt exclusively during the big O, and this is known as a squirting orgasm. Yet, it doesn’t happen with every orgasm. Additionally, some people can experience squirting before a climax. While scientific research on this topic is sparse, some studies show that the fluid is made up of skene’s gland secretions (i.e., the female prostate). It also contains traces of watered-down urine.

As mentioned, people with vaginas can squirt before or during an orgasm. It mainly occurs through intense G-spot or clitoral stimulation. It can involve rapid ejections or a single streak …

Have you ever experienced problems reaching orgasm? If the answer is yes, the first thing you need to know is that you’re not alone. This problem is not unsolvable. There are a few tricks you can use to improve the situation and experience more pleasure during sex.

Common Issues

There are a few reasons why someone might have trouble orgasming during sex. Let’s talk about the most common issues that might happen. Firstly, many people forget how important lubrication is. However, you can’t use any type of lubricant, and inadequate ones can cause problems with orgasms.

Naturally, it is always a problem when a person is insensitive and doesn’t take the time or try enough to ensure their partner is having fun. Furthermore, we should also mention that sometimes, the problem can be having a bad partner. Now, this doesn’t always have to be true, but it is often …

Are you into anal sex? Have you ever thought about erogenous zones and whether anal orgasm is possible? Here, we will go through everything you need to know about anal stimulation, orgasms, and how to reach one with ease. Naturally, it might take you a bit of practice before you experience it, but you will undoubtedly enjoy the journey.

What an Anal Orgasm Is, Exactly

Let’s talk about facts. Many people don’t know what anal orgasm is or whether it is possible at all. Anal orgasm is an orgasm reached through anal penetration and stimulation of nerve spots around the anus. However, the reason why anal orgasm is even possible is due to the shape of the clitoris.

It’s shaped like a wishbone, and there are a lot of nerves around the anterior wall of the rectum leading to the vagina. During anal stimulation, it is still possible to provide …

Are you one of many women that have never experienced an orgasm? Don’t worry — you’re definitely not alone in that. In fact, you can even blame biology for your lack of orgasmic experiences. How so? Well, we’re not all equally biologically programmed.

A vaginal orgasm might be easy to achieve for many women, but what if it isn’t? How do you let your partner know that you apparently cannot orgasm? Do you even tell them at all?

When it comes to questions like that, many women run to a single solution that has been proven effective since time immemorial — faking it! Faking an orgasm is something we’ve all done at least once. Maybe you’re having sex with someone new, and you don’t want to make them feel bad. Perhaps they’ve asked if you’ve orgasmed, and you’ve said yes because they clearly have no idea either way.

These white …

Reaching orgasms is something many of us struggle with. There’s a lot of frustration that comes with never experiencing one. It just makes you wonder if there’s something wrong with you. Thankfully, we have the answer to that.

Struggling to orgasm is a perfectly normal thing. Many men and women go through the same issue. Luckily, there are ways to explore other options because there isn’t just one type of orgasm.

Masturbation should play a significant role in how you experience orgasms. It helps you get to know your body, which means you’ll know the right buttons to push every single time. Not to mention that there are health benefits to it. What could possibly go wrong with giving it a try?

Faking the Big O

Unfortunately, not all women can achieve orgasm during intercourse. That’s right. Not all of us can experience that orgasmic bliss. Therefore, many of us …

It’s no secret that an orgasm is that sweet cherry on top of your sex cake. However, those that men experience differ quite a bit from those of women. There’s no doubt that both are important for your sexual health, but how does it feel for your man to spill his load? Our article aims to describe the whole thing and help you improve your skills in bed, so you can give him an ejaculation he’ll never forget.

Orgasms Are Amazing

Although female orgasms are fewer than male ones, they are arguably more satisfying. But how come? Well, it’s safe to say they last at least a few seconds more, which makes them somewhat more powerful than male ones. However, many people think that to reach a female orgasm, you have to penetrate fanatically, which is not true.

Firstly, female orgasm can come from three main types of stimulation. There’s …

The first vibrator ever was invented to cure a fake disease called female hysteria. This imaginary sickness was treated as an actual problem, and not without a good reason. One of the main causes of it was, as you can imagine, sexual frustration, that is, unfulfilled sexual needs.

So, it’s no wonder why the first vibrator was so good at treating “hysteria.” Even today, it’s still incredibly helpful when it comes to fulfilling sexual needs and keeping us in a good mood.

Moreover, the number of possibilities grew enormously in the 20th century. Today, we have so many sex toys to try out and play with that it would be a pity not to explore all the sensations they can give you.

So, here are all the reasons why every woman out there should have a solo session with sex toys once in a while.

It’s Not Weird to Use

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Dealing with orgasms can be bothersome at times. Who has the time to go looking for their G-spot every time they just want to get off? Well, lucky you because we’re here to tell you about different types of orgasms. Yes, they aren’t all about your vagina. 

If you have a favorite erogenous zone — like your nipples or anus — the chances are that you’ll be able to orgasm from stimulating it. So, let’s talk about orgasms. 

Clitoral Orgasm

Starting with a bang, let’s talk about clitoral orgasms. They’re definitely one of the few favorites. In fact, these orgasms are probably the easiest to achieve. Still, you can’t just simply rub your clit until it falls off. You need to approach it in a different way.

Since we’re all different, different things will work for us. The easiest way to stimulate your clitoris is with your fingers. However, if …

Doesn’t an orgasm feel good? Unfortunately, not everyone can answer that question. There are many things we know about female orgasms. However, we come to you with a short list. Take a deep dive and find out the things we should all know about female orgasm.

The Brain Turns Off

You did read that correctly. So if you have ever felt like your mind went blank during sex or orgasm, that’s probably because it did. However, it’s not like you completely lose consciousness while all of this is happening. You are completely aware of all that’s going on, but some things you do involuntarily.

That explanation was vague, so let’s elaborate. One part of your brain goes on vacation and leaves you entirely helpless. This part of the brain does this so that you can completely let go and enjoy yourself. Seriously! Since it’s in charge of things like emotions, …

It’s kind of wild that female masturbation is still something of a taboo topic. This is especially galling when you take the benefits of female masturbation into account. It would be one thing if masturbation were just this thing you do without any potential payoff, but in reality, masturbation—and the orgasms it may cause—can bring a lot of good into your life. These benefits aren’t even just limited to your sexual health.

“I recommend [masturbation] to the women I [treat],” says Kelley Kitely, L.C.S.W., a women’s mental health expert based in Chicago, tells us. “But a lot of women are embarrassed by it. My hope is that we can normalize it for women, too, because it’s such a natural function,” Kitely says. “I like to refer to it [on the same level of importance] as eating, sleeping, and brushing our teeth.” Sign us up.
Although there’s not a wealth of …

Maybe masturbation is a regular part of your sex life and you do it so often you never give it a second thought. Or you don’t do it nearly as often as your body wants you to, but you want to work it into your routine. Whatever your situation, getting busy with yourself is something all women should embrace as normal and healthy—though not everyone is comfortable with the idea of it.

“It’s an age old problem of societal normalization,” says Holly Richmond, PhD, somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist. “Boys are brought up to think masturbation is the norm, but it’s not talked about for girls.” That’s a real shame, especially since self-stimulation can deliver a host of mind-body benefits. To set the record straight, we’ve rounded up 9 fascinating facts every woman needs to know about masturbation. Start reading . . . then show yourself some love.

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How much do you know about masturbation? Here’s a look at some of the main things scientists have learned over the years from studying self-love, including who does it, why they do it, how they do it, and what physical and psychological effects it has on us.

1.) A majority of both men and women masturbate. However, men are more likely to have done it and they tend to do it more often than women.

2.) When considering people who have testosterone levels within the normal range, research has found that higher levels of testosterone are linked to having more desire for masturbation, but only among women; among men, testosterone levels are unrelated to masturbatory desire. This suggests that the factors triggering interest in masturbation may be different for men and women.

3.) People of all ages masturbate. Younger people are more likely to report doing it, but they’re definitely …

“I think I masturbate more when I’m stressed.”

“You masturbate?”

This conversation I had with a male friend embodies the surprise a lot of people express when they find out I not only masturbate, but also admit it unabashedly.

Because even though this friend and I talked about sex all the time and he knew I was sexually active in my relationships, the idea that I would be sexual alone hadn’t occurred to him.

And that’s because we’re taught that women’s sexuality only exists for other people.

Ever since I discovered masturbation accidentally during childhood, it’s been something I did in response to my own desires, not a show to put on for anyone.

I don’t get into sexy poses or make seductive noises. I don’t light candles or take baths. In short, I don’t go about the process differently from the way anyone else – men included – does. …

Men may talk about it more often, but women do it, too.

More than half of American women 18-49 masturbate at least once every 3 months, according to a study from The Kinsey Institute, and that’s true for single women and those who are coupled up. Self-pleasure doesn’t have the stigma it once did, says Nicole Prause, PhD, but myths still affect the way that some women feel about it — and how they do (or don’t) touch themselves.

Here are five things you should know about masturbation.

1. It’s good for you.

Masturbating increases blood flow throughout your body and releases feel-good brain chemicals called endorphins. “That may explain why there’s a clear mood benefit, even if you don’t orgasm,” says Prause, a sexuality researcher at UCLA. And while men are more likely to talk about blowing off steam by masturbating, research suggests it’s a stress-reliever for both sexes. …